What a perfect time to get the sex toy of your dreams!
All thanks to the sextech revolution that has brought about a great many options into the sex toy industry. From sex toys specially designed for trans men to toys that would make a geek tremble in anticipation – the wide variety of options available makes it possible for everyone to find their perfect fit.
Gone are the yesteryears when the choices for men are run-of-the-mill solo strokers. Today, the materials and designs of male sex toys are eerily close to the real thing that you may never want to seek a human lover again.
OK, just kidding. So do you want a sex toy that feels extremely realistic, or something slightly intense? Or maybe, you want to heat up your masturbation session with a high-tech masturbator that syncs with the porn of your choice.
Don’t let previous experiences with pocket pussies deter you. Ahead is a useful guide to the best wireless masturbating machine in the world.
Whose powerful suction will milk your dick like your life depended on it. And the unbelievable thrust speed of 10 strokes per second will service your penis like no other stoker you’ve ever known.
The Handy Masturbator
Many male strokers rely wholly on manual operation. By this, we mean it is up to users to move the masturbator up and down all by themselves.
With hands-free masturbators, you can afford to be lazy because the device does all the “hard labor” of stroking for you. Of all the other masturbation machines available, Handy offers the most amazing experience with its thrusting speed of 0-10 strokes per second and powerful suction cup.
That’s not all, this automatic high-tech sex toy is built with an 11cm stroke length guaranteed to service all your sweet spots. It has a soft but firm sleeve that will make your shaft thinks it’s inside a real vagina. The interior of the medical-grade sleeve has a ribbed texture to give you extra stimulation.
Though the Handy may be relatively new in the market, it has set the pace for other strokers since it was launched. Unlike many other strokers, it has a clear detachable sleeve that is built in such a way that makes cleanup a breeze.
To cap it off, you can sync your Handy with a smartphone and your partner or favorite pornstar can control your pleasure from wherever they are.
Can be synced with adult movies at HandyFeeling.com.
Can give you up to 600 strokes per minute. The only stroker in the market with such a powerful thrust speed.
Long-distance control through Bluetooth
Quite pricey: Seeing all the powerful features packed into the device, the price shouldn’t come as a surprise to you.
And compared to other high-end strokers, Handy is fairly cheap, as the makers want every adult male to be able to afford one.
No vibrations yet
Only one sleeve available for now and it’s a tested and confirmed one-size-fit-all sleeve.
How to Connect Handy to WiFi
The Handy has a dual-core processor with both WiFi and Bluetooth. It is possible to use the Handy offline if you don’t have the Internet connection. Basically, the masturbator’s main performance is offline.
However, the Handy is able to connect to different online services safely and anonymously. That’s where you need the Internet connection. WiFi will also help you update the firmware of the Handy if you would like to improve your sex machine when new firmware is released. This allows the Handy to be constantly improved and new services to develop.
For example, the Handy has a remote-control function in BETA, which gives its users an opportunity to control the Handy and sync with video on your smartphone, computer or a tablet. The Handy can be controlled by your partner no matter where they are. And the video synchronization of the device offers the most immersive adult movie experience ever.
As we can see, a built in Wi-Fi opens a number of possibilities for Handy users and makes their masturbation process even more pleasurable. Let’s see how to set up WiFi connection on your Handy to enjoy all the above described features.
The first thing to do is to power the Handy. Then you need to press the Wi-Fi button on the control panel. Hold the button until the indicator LED quickly flashes blue and dark blue. This will show you that the Handy is in setup mode.
The next step is to go to Wi-Fi settings on your Wi-Fi enabled device. It can be a PC, MAC, iPhone, or Android. Now you have to connect to the Handy setup Wi-Fi network. By doing so, you will be directly connected to your Handy. The setup will start automatically.
The Handy setup will allow you to configure Wi-Fi, see and change your Connection Key, update the Handy and do some other settings as well.
So, you have to choose the Wi-Fi that you want your Handy to connect to and enter the Wi-Fi’s password. Just press connect and your device will connect to the chosen network after restarting. The indicator LED will slowly flash blue and green.
You may choose to update the Handy. It won’t take more than 5 min. When the update is finished the LED indicator flashes yellow and green. Just press any button to reset the Handy.
Now you are ready to use online services of the Handy. Just press the WiFi button once. Do not hold it unless you want the device to enter setup mode and change the network.
If you can’t connect to your WiFi, here are the LED indicator codes that inform you about the possible error:
Yellow and White flashes indicate the ongoing update. Just wait 1-5 minutes.
Yellow and Red slow flashes show that the update failed and you have to try again. If it doesn’t help, contact support.
Blue and White fast flashes show that the Handy is trying to connect to your Wi-Fi network.
Blue and Red fast flashes inform you that the WiFi connection has failed. Unplug Handy and try Wi-Fi setup again. If it doesn’t help, contact support.
The Handy Functions
Sex toy industry is being constantly developed. The Handy masturbator is a perfect example of the most advanced and effective male sax toy ever existed. The Handy has a number of functions that can make your masturbation delightful and give you multiple orgasms.
The Handy is a masturbator with a sleeve. It may not seem a brand new invention, but there is something special about it. The sleeve is on the outside of the device, held by the bracelet. It makes the handy really adjustable no matter what penis size you have. It’s a great advantage, as many people have difficulty finding a sex toy that fits them.
The Handy is mains-operated. All you have to do is to plug the power supply unit into a socket and the other part into the Handy. The device has a quiet and powerful brushless motor to meet power and control requirements. It makes the Handy light and comfortable to use, so it never runs out of power at a most inappropriate time.
The Handy masturbator allows you to choose the stroke length, speed and the grip to have different experience with the device. The Handy has a variable stroke length of 4.5″ (11cm) and is capable of performing 10 strokes per second at max speed.
However, the Handy doesn’t only have a dual processor, a brushless motor, and is universally suitable for penises of all shapes and sizes. The Handy is a smart masturbator. It has built in Wi-Fi and Bluetooth that open a great number of possibilities. Handy can be updated through the Internet, and it is being continuously developed and improved.
It is possible to connect your Handy to a smartphone, tablet or computer. It allows you or your partner to control the machine remotely. It is really convenient.
Using the Handy you may give pleasure to your partner even when you are away. Which makes the Handy a sex machine that can help in the relationships, but not the one used only for self-satisfaction. Giving control of the Handy to your partner, you receive a remote blowjob or handjob, isn’t it awesome?
Well, there is more. When you connect the Handy to your smartphone, it can also synchronize with the movement sensors on your phone. So the masturbator reacts to that as well. All you have to do is connect your Handy to your phone and switch on motion control. Move your phone up and down to start stroking the Handy. If you shake your phone faster, your Handy strokes faster. If you make short, rapid shakes, the Handy makes short, rapid strokes. As easy as it appears.
If you raise your phone a bit higher, still making short, rapid shakes, the Handy responds by moving higher and making short, rapid strokes that focus on the head of the penis. Even when you make pause to change arms, for example, the Handy will make a short pause as well.
The Handy also has a video synchronization for your favorite adult movies. It is compatible with different services as Google Home, Video Sync, remote control and VR. So, handy can literally be called a sex machine of the future.
Online experience for Handy
Have you ever dreamed about taking part in the adult movie? Do you want your favorite porn star do you a blowjob? Or you have a long distance relationship, but you want to have sex with your partner? The Handy masturbator and website handyfeeling.com can easily make it possible.
Apart from being an effective and reliable masturbator as it is, the Handy team now offers you an opportunity to synchronize the videos with the device. The synchronized and matching movements of the porn films and the Handy bring some new pleasure to your masturbation.
The Handy masturbator can perfectly be used offline and still be the best masturbation machine, but it has online benefits too. HandyFeeling will introduce you to the online experiences that you haven’t had with any other sex toy. It will help you get the most out of your Handy.
HandyFeeling offer a number of interactive videos to synchronize your Handy with. It allows you not only enjoy the scene but also the repeated actions from the screen made by the masturbator. You can fully immerse into the movie and feel special as if taking part in it.
HandyFeeling gives you access to videos of different categories, including the videos for VR, HD videos and POV. What do you like the most: a handjob, blowjob or titjob? Here you can find all kind of interactive videos that won’t leave you cold.
It is also possible to control your Handy remotely with the help of HandyFeeling. It is really convenient if you want to control it yourself. And it is possible to give a full control of your Handy to your partner as well. Here you will have a power button and a cross that allows you to control the range of motion and the speed. You can also see a LED indicator too.
Moreover, HandyFeeling allow you to use local videos from your device or found online. When you select a script “.csv” on handyfeeling.com it is uploaded to the servers and pushed to your Handy device. The script is stored and can be used by others. But don’t worry, no personal data are stored.
The Handy and HandyFeeling are being constantly developed, new videos and features are added and those technologies revolution the sex toy industry.
How to Combine Handy With Cock Rings for Rock Hard Erections and Powerful Orgasms (Part 1)
The Handy masturbator is a powerful high-tech male stroker with an incredible 0-10 strokes per second. What this means is that when masturbating with it, you get a mind-numbing 10 thrusts per second or 600 thrusts within a minute. The first of its kind in the market!
If you want to go slower, no problem, all the features are not static. You can easily customize thrust speed, grip, and stroke length to your liking.
In this article, we will be talking about how to combine The Handy masturbator with a cock ring. If you are asking why, this is the reason:
Some men suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation, or other forms of sexual insecurities. This makes it hard for them to get a firm erection, orgasm, and overall, they are unable to attain sexual pleasure.
As a result of this, some of these men with ED or other sexual dysfunctions turn to cock rings to improve their erections and pleasure. Others who can get it up fully, but simply want to achieve thicker and harder erections during masturbation or sex also use the ring.
So whether you have ED or not, you can expect this outcome when masturbating with both Handy and cock rings:
The harder erection and sometimes-prolonged orgasm cock ring gives, combined with the super-tight grip, pussy-like cup, and thrusts of Handy will give an explosive finish – you’ll want to relive and repeat over and over again.
Before going over how to use the C-ring with handy in the second series of this article, let’s see how safe the device is, the different types available, and how it works.
Are Cock Rings Safe?
They can be if you exercise these simple precautions:
Yes, cock rings ought to fit snugly to be effective, but not tight enough to cause pain, bite into the skin or cause discoloration of your flesh. Get your correct size, don’t force your penis into a ring that is far smaller than you.
C-ring should not be worn for more than 20-30 minutes. Your penis has to breathe, if it stays longer, you risk causing damage to your penile tissues.
It’s wise to shave the pubic hair before wearing the device to avoid unwanted pain when hair is mistakenly pulled when strapping on the ring.
4 Types of Cock Rings
Also known as pleasure ring, erection ring or cock ring, this magical little toy can be a:
Stretchy ring made from soft silicone
Solid steel ring
Vibrating ring or
Adjustable leather with Velcro or snap closure.
How Does a Cock Ring Work?
When you wear a cock ring at the restricts blood flow out of your shaft. Since the blood is trapped inside the penis, this keeps the penis engorged, giving you a harder and bigger erection.
Additionally, when you encircle the base of your shaft and scrotum with a cock ring, it’ll place pressure on your perineum, the area between your asshole and balls. This on its own is pleasurable.
If perchance, the pressure extends to the vas deferens that takes sperm to the shaft, it’ll help delay ejaculation. This will give you a longer thrust time with your Handy and that creates a phenomenal buildup to a fiery climax.
3 Stimulating Ways of Masturbating With Handy and Cock Rings (Part 2)
When you want to masturbate with both Handy masturbator and C-rings, you wear the rings first before moving on to Handy.
If you’re a newbie to using penis rings, start with the adjustable ring with the Velcro or snap fastener. That way, if you’re feeling any form of discomfort, it is easier to pull off the ring even when you’re aroused.
You can also use the stretchable silicon ring, but the drawback is it may not be as tight as you want it. And it may take a little bit of effort to get it off your penis when the organ is fully gung ho.
Remember to use some water-based lube as it heightens the sensations. And if you’re using a stretchy ring, lube makes it easier to slide the ring on and off your penis.
Lastly, don’t forget to trim down there to avoid the ring painfully ripping off any pubic hair.
#1Wear the Cock Ring the Classic Way
While your shaft is soft, lift it up in one hand, hold the penis ring in place at the base of your balls. Release your penis and fasten the closing with your free hand.
Check to see the ring isn’t too tight and is not pinching anything, then position the closing where it feels comfortable.
Once you’ve put on the cock ring, get your Handy from beside you. Slide your dick into the sleeve, set the tightness, thrust speed, and stroke length to how you want it and start stroking.
It’s better you start with a slower thrust speed, so you can draw out your masturbation session as long as possible. Turn on your Handy and enjoy a most amazing session unlike any other.
For first-timers who get so aroused with putting on an erection ring that they shoot quite early. What they should do is practice edging.
They should let Handy stroke them very near to climax and stop the device. They can do this for as long as they find pleasurable before letting the machine stroke them to a big bang finish.
This isn’t for everyone. It’s STRICTLY for those who hanker for a more EXPLOSIVE RESULT.
To see greater fireworks at the end of your session, quickly undo the fastener and remove your ring near the time of your climax.
#2Wanking with the C-Ring behind Your Testicles
You know, your balls wouldn’t mind some affection too. And there’s nothing more sensational than the stimulating tightness of a C-ring!
Settle the adjustable ring behind your balls and make sure it’s comfortable for you.
Slide your junk into the Handy stroker and start thrusting straight away.
It has been confirmed that wearing C-ring around the testicles instead of the penis helps with premature ejaculation.
#3Take Your Play up A Notch with 2 Penis Rings at a Go
Wear the first cock ring behind the testicles.
Slide a second ring (make this one the stretchy type) to the base of your penis.
Now you’re rocking a ring behind your balls and another one before your balls. This will enable you to have a powerful and super firm erection that you’ve probably only seen in porn films.
Next, put your penis inside the Handy sleeve and start wanking away.
How to Hit Your P-Spot and Enjoy Super Strong Milking with a Vibrating Anal Probe and the Automatic Handy Stroker
Sometime back, people linked anal vibrators only to gays but nowadays, that isn’t the case anymore. Anal vibrators are for anyone, both men and women alike, interested in finding new ways to experience sexual pleasure.
As far as gender stereotypes go, guys are offered a limited set of sexual toys, Vibrators are one good way to break out of those boundaries and explore a new realm of sensual gratification.
That’s why we’re introducing you to how to masturbate with the Handy masturbator and a vibrating anal probe.
A vibrating anal probe is one of the main types of anal vibrators. The 2 other popular anal vibes are vibrating butt plugs and vibrating anal beads.
What Is A Vibrating Anal Probe?
Smaller than the butt plug or prostate massager, anal probes are approximately the size of the human finger which makes them the ideal device for beginners.
The main purpose of the vibrating anal probe is to glide in, vibrate, and stimulate your prostate. However, some men use it as a foreplay tool to tickle other parts of their body including their dick.
They then use it to fuck their ass while an automatic hands-free stroker helps them wank off their dick. Vibrating anal probes vary in design, shape, and size.
When shopping for one, make sure you buy a design with a flared base to ensure the toy doesn’t get lost or probably stuck down there.
Secondly, use this diagram as a guide to locate what you’ll be stimulating – your prostate.
Thirdly, learn how to have the most crazily sensuous time ever by hitting your male G-spot and fucking your penis simultaneously.
Before you begin masturbating, take a test drive with your vibrator by pressing it firmly across your body without turning on the motor. This helps to familiarize your body with the feel of the vibrator.
Play around with the settings to get acquainted with the functions.
Start your foreplay by turning on your vibrator to a low setting and run it across your arms, belly, scalp, butt, nipples, and other places you fancy. Well, anywhere but your genitals and apply deep pressure when moving the toy over these areas.
Also with deep pressure, move the vibrator to sensitive parts like the perineum, inner thigh, and up and down your shaft. Remember you’re aiming for a more intense release, so don’t tease your shaft to the extent it’ll ejaculate prematurely.
When you deeply press the vibrator to the perineum, it’ll stimulate your prostate externally which gives a sweet feeling. When you get to your scrotum, you may want to press the vibe gently because hard press might not feel so good.
When you get to your anus, gently slide the device in, and tilt it toward the prostate. But before you do this, ensure you’ve applied plenty of anal lube at the edge and deep within your anus.
Tease your prostate a bit till you’re aroused, and remove the toy.
Lube up your penis if you want. Slide it into your Handy sleeve, and adjust grip, stroke speed, and length to desired settings.
To draw out your solo play, begin with a low thrust speed. Start stroking with your Handy, at the same time. With your other free hand, slide your probe into your butt, and use it to tease your prostate and fuck your ass till you cum.
Male Masturbation Machines: Health Benefits
Helps in managing premature ejaculation: The therapists of sex across the globe found that men who do premature ejaculation during sex can get advantage from masturbation if he does masturbation for about 2 hours before sex and masturbation machines play an important role in that. This enables men to have longer duration before another ejaculation comes on.
Improves Sperm Motility: Some researches proved that masturbation can improve some motility and quality. Theoretically, it is said that a man before masturbation intercourse can release the residual sperms in the transporting tubules of semen. In this way, for the new and better sperms that are released during the sexual act and help in increasing the chances of conception that can add to health benefits.
Prevents Prostate Cancer: In one of the researches in Australia, it is found that men ejaculated more than three or five times a week can be third less to develop prostate cancer. So, masturbation and its machines help you to do that and hence you flush bad substances out of your system and will protect you from prostate cancer.
Keep you last longer: It helps you to take yourself to palm prom that can help you to stretch your sack sessions. Make yourself train by keeping timing, as like how long you take to orgasm. Usually, if it takes two-three minutes solo, then try for the next three times. Or, you can also count the number of strokes you need to get to a happy place.
Helps in managing stress and depression: Masturbation with machines can help in reducing stress level and manages it. With the help of it, you can release the feel-good hormones known as Oxytocin in the body. Also, it has been found useful in reducing depression.
Helps in reducing nasal congestion: In one of the studies, it is demonstrated that masturbation or sex helps in the reduction of swelling vessels of the nose. Theoretically, it may improve the symptoms of the hay fever, common cold, allergic rhinitis and many other health-related ailments.
Boost your mood: Masturbating helps in releasing a slew of neurochemicals of good feeling like oxytocin and dopamine which boost your satisfaction, lift your spirits and activate the reward circuits in the brain. An orgasm is one of the biggest non-drug blasts of dopamine which is available and it advantages health in more than one way.
Masturbation will not put hair on palms. Rather what it permits you to understand the need of your body better and helps you to pursue sexual pleasure on your own which may lead you to release tension, also provides an option for the safer sex activity with partners. It also allows you to explore your fantasies.
Hi all, Alexander the CTO of Handy here. I wanted to give you all a Handy update on what we been doing the last months and what is going to happen the next months.
Handy sales have been increasing the last two months. This could not be done without the help, reviews and post you guys have made. So, thanks a lot for that! We are a small startup and need all the help we can get to grow further.
There have been a lot of cool new reviews out there during the summer months. It’s is extremely motivating for everyone in the Handy team to read that our product is that well received in the market.
A lot of our attention the last months have gone to scaling the business, and we are trying to attract smart people to help us evolve the tech, create new stuff, spread the word and grow. This process is a little slow, but hopefully our development will speed up by a lot when our engineering department gets bigger and the new hires are up to speed. Currently we are 4 engineers, but we hope to at least double this during 2020.
We have had 3 mainfocus areas this summer:
Companion app for simpler Wi-Fi setup
The server stability
We have done some changes to the current system during the summer and the server system seems a lot more stable. We have built a completely new server architecture from scratch, but there is still some final testing before we can make the switch. The new architecture will lower latency and be ready for the tens of thousandsof new Handys that will go online the next months.
The current wifi setup is not the simplest one. When everything works smooth it is quite nice, but most of the feedback is that we need to change this process. We are creating a companion app for iOS and Android that uses Bluetooth to provision the Wi-Fi credentials to Handy and to see/change the Connection Key. To enable BLE (Bluetooth Low Energy) on Handy was a much bigger task than we initially thought due to the extremely high RAM usage of the BLE stack. BLE is now enabled in our new 3.X FW (I will describe that in more detail later). The actual app development is started and the app is due in end of October (if everything goes according to plan).
We got some complaints about our band solution. We have now changed it to a thicker high-quality material. The band is washable, and the sewing is improved to improve the overall experience. This new band is now the default band when you buy a Handy. It will be possible to buy the band separately as well.
We will also release an extra band that is a little longer, which makes it better to use with bigger sleeves. Both bands will be in stock and possible to buy in September.
A Handy update: Other things that we are working on
There are a lot of requests for us to develop new hardware. When we develop physical items we usually design and create prototypes in Norway, then we go to China to meet all the necessary experts in various fields, discuss and make plans for manufacturing. Sadly, the covid-19 situation has put a blocker to our travel plans and all new HW development have been postponed. Hopefully, we can get to China in October to resume all our projects.
We are creating some new sleeves now. It looks like there will be 3 open ended sleeves with different tightness. Some more testing and feedback needed before we can start the manufacturing. ETA in stores is September/October. The overall look will be the same, but they will have different sensations based on the majority feedback we received from all of you.
We want to create a lot of sleeves going forward and hopefully the sleeve development process can speed up a little.
1.0.0 API draft have been a huge success. A lot of cool apps have been created. The final documentation will be updated this week and 1.0.0 will be officially released. The endpoints will be the same, but the documentation will be better.
We are building the firmware from scratch. We have worked on this for 6 months, making the FW more secure, modular, and flexible. The 3.X FW uses BLE instead of local AP for Wi-Fi setup and have some cool new features like that streaming protocols. In the next weeks we are opening up for our pro users to switch between 2.X (current FW) and the new 3.X FW. More on this later.
I will try to post regularly on our progress going forward.
Please continue to provide feedback, support, and love.
One of the masturbation machines particularly stood out as the test panel’s clear favorite.
The participants in this test are Andreas Østerøy (24) and Cristian Andre Louis Brennhovd (20), both famous faces from last year’s and this year’s season of Ex on the Beach (NO).
Participants were asked to answer the following questions:
What do you think about the product’s appearance and quality?
Ease of use – is the product easy to use?
Positive / negative things?
Orgasm factor – does it do the job?
Dice roll 1-6
The Handy – The Ultimate Handjob machine
This product promises to provide an amazing masturbation experience without you having to lift a finger. It is a jerking machine where you can adjust the machine according to your wishes and needs, and where you can adjust the size and intensity. Settings for up and down movements, in both length and speed, give you a tailored experience. The product is plugged into an electrical outlet.
The quality and appearance of this is very good.
It makes some sound, a machine sound. But it was not very loud.
There is a strap at the front to be pulled out, I thought it was a little difficult to get out of it, but otherwise it was very easy to use. You quickly understand how to navigate your way forward.
The only negative is that it is not rechargeable, you have to connect it to power.
This one really did the job! I tested with Sandra (partner), and she almost got a little angry, when I said that the only difference between this and her, was that this did not get tired.
This one is totally sick – I love it! In appearance it may look a bit much, but the quality seems very good.
It makes quite a lot of sound, so unless you have AirPods in, you will notice the sound
The product is easy to use, but I struggled a bit at first to understand how to change the speed, but it went well after I had tried a little. Would recommend reading the user manual. Super easy to clean.
The sound pulls down a bit, but it’s one of my favorites anyway.
When the first male sex toy broke out of the closet in the 1960s, the thought of more powerful versions emerging in just a few decades was unthinkable. Despite our skepticism, masturbation tools for men have evolved. From weird, limb-like sex dolls to ultra-modern, classy, and pleasurable sexual power-houses – today’s masturbation machines takes it to a whole new level!
With the stigma around male masturbation slowly dissolving, male sexual products are procuring visibility in mainstream markets. What seemed like a bright but elusive future for male sex toys – has now arrived with a bang.
From virtual reality simulations to electrifying auto-blows and teledildonics, here is a deeper exploration into the male sex toy journey.
Masturbation Machines: Where it all began…
Male masturbation tools have actually been around for thousands of years. While technologically advanced masturbation machines have only acquired fame recently, men have been masturbating since time immemorial. And have always invented creative ways of jerking off.
Historically, our ancestors devised some ancient ways of veering off, with the most common being the use of stale bread smeared with olive oil (to serve as lube). Over time, men shifted to using warm fabrics, before puffed-up sex dolls eventually sufficed in the 90s.
Although it was a relief to finally slide their penises into vagina-like orifices, these male masturbation tools simply failed to measure up. They were overly manual and unrealistic in appearance. They also failed to imbue men with the power to fully explore their bodies with acute precision and skill.
Unfortunately, most people also still frowned upon sexual products, and only some men had the balls to exit a sex store carrying an artificial vagina.
Luckily, technology and digitization heeded to men’s restrained sexual cries, and eventually, masturbation tools for men began to catch up.
How Has Digitization Impacted Masturbation Machines?
Internet and technology as a whole signaled new dawn to various facets of intimacy, with solo-play nabbing the lion’s share. With the internet came the prevalent consumption of pornography, which prompted a major forward leap for male masturbation.
With men able to jerk off to their favorite sex scenes, and in a private setting, potential male sex toy manufacturers saw a niche and jumped in while it was still hot. The first to arrive was the manual strokers which often somewhat resembled a real vagina. The market is huge for this kind of manual stroker today, but mostly because it’s convenient for manufacturers. Now, years later, more sex toy producers has come up with improved and high-functioning masturbation tools, which brings technology to the mix.
While perfectly syncing sexual desires and innovation, we’ve witnessed an eruption of automatic masturbators, teledildonics, sleeves, high-tech male strokers, sexual robots, prostate massagers, and more. And what has that meant for the quality of masturbation?
Today, a smartphone with a fast internet connection is all you need, and you will have your favorite device delivered right at your doorstep.
Men are no longer relying on imaginations to jerk off. Porn and interactive videogames have replaced still photos in magazines, and no one is complaining. Most people are not complaining, is a safer way to put it probably. Virtual reality has opened up a world of possibilities where men can thwart themselves into a virtual reality of real people having sex.
These tools are not just reserved for solo-play. We are lucky to be able to bring our partners aboard our interesting and pleasurable journeys. Self-exploration and endless orgasms are something to be shared with loved ones! And who knew, studies show it actually grows the relationship and the individuals in it.
Masturbating today is at its best; guilt-free, soothing, pain-free, and most importantly, satisfying. This was only a dream for men, just a few decades back!
Straight, gay, young, old, 8-inched or not, we are not leaving anyone behind. The world’s best male sex toy manufacturers are constantly contemplating better ways of elevating your sexual experiences through affordable products.
Despite the commendable milestones so far, the future remains bright. And we would be honored to bring you along. Try out the Handy masturbator today and experience a once-in-a-lifetime climactic orgasm, which is clear proof of how far masturbation tools for men have come. Want to find out more? Read a Handy review to see what our customers think!
Sex toys for men can be daunting, but is a go-to tool to heighten intimacy and up the ante in the bedroom – whether you are in it alone or with company.
Let’s get real: Genitals, mouths, and fingers can only go so far. While the best sex toys are pretty capable of taking care of the rest.
But trying out a male sex toy for the first time, or introducing a toy into sexual play with your S.O. can be a bit daunting, especially when you don’t know where to start.
Whether you are a man who wants to bring in the male toys or you’re the woman who wishes to use it on her male partner, we will suggest the obvious:
Take the time to test a variety of options. You don’t know what you like until you have tried them all. Saying that, we recommend not going mental on the first buy, take your time to research and find products that people recommend.
That being said, here are a few tips on a sex toy starter’s package that we recommend starting off with.
Strokers or Masturbators
Strokers are by far, some of the most highly demanded male sex toys.
Manual masturbators come in various materials and textures, and offers different sensations to some degree. However, automatic strokers takes it to another level and this is where the different products vary drastically. Some automatic strokers are far more adjustable than others. They include features such as movie sync and wifi connection. Some strokers are difficult to clean, and others are very simple. We recommend doing some proper research in advance. Find a stroker that can be adjusted to your needs and allow you to experience a variety of sensations.
Anal sex can still be somewhat intimidating for some people. But we should give anal play a try, as it stimulates the prostate. Which gives us a different but enjoyable kind of orgasm without even touching the penis.
If you and your partner are just trying anal play for the first time, then you want to start with butt plugs. As it might be less intimidating than other anal toys.
A vibrator is a good way of introducing a hesitant partner or inner skeptic to the world of sex toys. And the good part is – most vibrators can be used to please everyone. There are plenty of both advanced and simple versions out there, but remember, you often get what you pay for with a vibrator. If a vibrator is very small then the motor inside is equally petite. So if you are looking for a powerful vibration then you must increase in size. Or at least up the price for a smaller version. It takes a lot of technology to create intense vibration with a small motor. That’s not to say that a larger vibrator is by nature powerful. However, a small one will struggle to compete with the most advanced larger versions. The Sybian is a good example of what it takes to create the most powerful vibrations – at least up until today.
The penis pump is a non-invasive method of enlarging and prolonging an erection. It is a super fun toy to use during sex.
It increases the girth of a penis which enables men to enjoy mind-blowing sex and reach a stronger climax – if effective. There are multiple options out there, which uses very different techniques to receive the same goal, so we recommend yet again that you do a deep dive and see what other people say about the products available.
If you are interested in learning more about sex toys for men, please check out the other articles on our website.
Feeling bored with your current masturbation routine and would like to try combining your Handy with other toys? We totally get it. And that’s why we have made this beginner’s guide to masturbating with Handy and Anal Beads.
It’s human and 100% natural to hunger for novelty in your bedroom and in everyday life. You’ve heard all the hype about masturbating anally and you can’t wait to experience another kind of sexual sensation.
To satisfy your cravings, we’ve compiled this article to show you a new way to spice up your solo play with the Handy masturbator using anal beads!
While prostate massager enters and stays put, anal beads go inside the anus, one after the other. When pulled out at differing speeds, they deliver an intensified sensation.
Anal beads also give a super different feeling to anal fingering. Compared to fingers which have nails and multiple joints, anal beads provide a slicker glide into and out of your anus.
Hence, the beads could draw out pleasure from the erogenous anus the way your finger can’t.
How Does it Feel Exactly?
Contrary to what you might have read before, anal beads don’t provide a continuous stream of pleasant sensations.
In reality, the beads primarily stimulate when you insert and remove them across 2 ringed sphincter muscles in the anal cavity. This produces a series of delightful sensations every time a bead is pulled across these muscles!
How to Introduce Anal Beads into Your Solo Sesh?
Time needed: About 30 minutes
1.Choose anal beads for beginners
If you’re new to anal play, we recommend you choose any tapered set which starts with small beads that get progressively bigger with each bead.
This helps you go at a relaxed pace up to the larger sizes.
2.Apply plenty of lube to your anal beads
If you want to feel good, and more importantly, be comfortable, then you’re going to want to use a good anal lube.
3.Add additional lubrication inside your anal entry
The rectum is fragile and could easily rip or tear without lube. Moreover, using lube also make for a pleasurable anal experience.
4.Start your foreplay with the Handy stroker before …
Arousal is vital for every sexual act and it’s especially important for anal pleasure. If you’re not aroused, jumping straight into it won’t be pleasant for you.
5.Introducing the devil beads
Make sure you are relaxed and prepared before introducing anything new.
When you work all your beads in, wait a bit to let your anus adjust. When you’re ready, again, slowly pull out the beads one after the other.
Repeat this inserting and removing beads process about 2 or 3 times to actively excite your anus. All the while you’ll be doing this bead play, note that you won’t be stimulating your penis with Handy.
On your second or third anal play, leave the beads in your anus, get your Handy, and start thrusting with it. When you’re near climax, slowly remove the beads and, well…. release!
May is officially the masturbation month worldwide. It started on May 7 1995, in honor of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders, who was actually fired by President Clinton in 1994 for suggesting that masturbation should be part of the sex-education classes.
According to masturbationmonth.com, when Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was asked about masturbation’s impacts on one’s sexual activity, she answered:
“I think it is something that is part of human sexuality and a part of something that perhaps should be taught.”
It was moved to May 28th with the purpose of protecting everyone’s rights to… well, masturbate.
Breaking Self-Play Stigmas
Just like basically any other sex-related matter, masturbation has a lot of stigma flowing around it, along with shame and misconceptions.
Back in the 18th century, people used to believe that masturbation was a new “disease” that requires medical intervention. Many religious people are convinced that it’s a sure way to hell. Old medical studies suggest that it can cause blindness, madness, and pretty much everything unexplainable.
By the 19th century, the anti-masturbation movement was so powerful that you could find “protection” devices, such as erection alarms, penis cages, mittens, and hobbles for the girls, so they wouldn’t be able to spread their legs. (Luckily, these devices are still used today, but usually repurposed.)
20th Century Changed The Views
Starting with the mid 20th century, people started to wake up to the masturbation misconception. And in the ’70s, women started embracing masturbation as a way of expressing their freedom.
They started the work of making masturbation “normal” by writing books, holding workshops and developing vibrator businesses. (Completely denying Freud’s theory of sexual development, which suggested that clitoral orgasms and masturbation, in general, were infantile behaviors.)
Now, what do we do with all the stigma? We simply ignore it and move on with our lives. After all, no one needs to know the details of everything we do, so we might just as well appreciate the fact that we live in a free world and be happy about it.
It doesn’t matter who you are or what your sex, sexuality and general view of the world is. As a free person, you can masturbate “freely” without worrying about judgment or stigma (disclaimer: “freely” does not mean “publicly”). So let’s all be adults here, and enjoy masturbation together!
There is a Masturbation May community forming, and the internet is joining efforts to promote the month-long event.
It all began as a form of social activism and a way for people to speak up about masturbation and of course, its benefits. Today, it is also used as an opportunity to promote sex toys, educational workshops, and even pornography. Best month of the year?! Should be!
Multiple male orgasms are almost unheard of. But that is because it’s virtually impossible for a man to experience multiple ejaculatory orgasms with zero refractory period or “rest and recovery period”. However, it is possible to climax many times in a row when semen is not released.
This technique is called non-ejaculatory multiple orgasms and it can be achieved by strengthening the pelvic floor. Note that the orgasms don’t feel as intense as ejaculatory orgasms but they are equally enjoyable.
For you to enjoy multiple orgasms during masturbation or sex, you need to get your body used to orgasming without releasing.
Here are a few practice tips to help train your body.
Multiple Male Orgasms by Strengthening Your Pc Muscles
While a few men happen upon multiple orgasms by accident, others have to practice to enjoy the experience. The first step to being able to orgasm several times in a row is by strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises.
The PC muscles need to be worked on because they are the ones responsible for controlling ejaculatory and orgasmic responses during a sexual play.
If you can restrain yourself from releasing semen after orgasm, you are highly likely to bypass your refractory period and climax over and over again.
Now onto how Kegel exercise is done. It’s quite simple, really. What you do is simply contract the PC muscle like you do when controlling your urine flow.
Kegel exercises can be practiced anywhere. You can contract the muscles for about 10 seconds even in your car.
Edging is actually masturbation without orgasming. Susan Wenzel, a sex therapist suggests practicing edging by bringing yourself to the point of climax then stopping.
She said this should be repeated about 5 to 6 times. Wenzel in an MBG relationship interview said ejaculatory inevitability should be recognized before climax and not after.
On a scale of one to ten, ten being the point of climax, she said, you should stop or “edge” at 9.5.
A different way of edging is to…
Apply Physical Pressure
In applying physical pressure, you need to make sure you’re applying just the right amount and not a lax or a death grip.
How you do this is by using the squeeze method discovered by Virginia Johnson and William Master. You hold the base of your erect penis tightly with your hand to stop the desire to release.
Alternatively, with your finger, you can apply pressure to your perineum (area between the anus and the scrotum) to stop ejaculation. Sex toys such as cock rings could also be used in place of your finger.
Having Trouble with Edging: Switch Positions
If you’re finding it hard to delay gratification, try another position. If lying down or sitting isn’t helping you to hold yourself from ejaculating, you could try standing or vice versa.
Find the position that helps you better tighten your PC muscles so you can orgasm without ejaculation. That is key.
Control Your Breathing
As you draw close to ejaculating, your breathing increases sharply which in turn, raises your heart rate. Slowing down your breathing rate will significantly help in postponing ejaculation.
To slow down your breathing, engage in some deep “belly breathing”. To do this, make yourself comfortable on a chair. Don’t slouch, sit upright, then take a deep breath.
As you inhale deeply, your stomach will expand but don’t move your chest. Let each breath last for about 3 seconds. Practice belly breathing daily.
Use it to slow down your breathing rate when it increases just before ejaculation.
Diligently practicing these techniques daily should increase your chances of joining the league of men who have multiple male orgasms during masturbation or sex with a partner.
What is the core of male sexuality? And are we all created equal? Are all men sex-crazed machines, or is that what popular media would want you to believe? Are men only after sex whilst women appreciate emotional relationships? Conventional wisdom has placed more robust sex drives and straightforwardness with intercourse on the laps of men. Whether heterosexual or gay, women are said to be more concerned with the emotional aspects of sex.
There are, however, other cultural and social factors, as well as contextual sensitivity norms that affect men’s sexual desires without leaning on stereotyped clichés.
So what is true about male sexuality? And how, if at all, do we differ from our female counterparts?
Male Sexuality: The Science
Many studies have tried to map the common aspects of male and female sexuality, and the verdict is out: men & women do differ.
A study invited male and female participants to watch videos of sex acts in order to find gender differences in arousal. The study was conducted by showing the participants videos of two men having sex and two women having sex. The interesting found was that straight men only got aroused by watching the two women, and gay men only got aroused by watching the two men. However, the women got aroused by watching both videos. The scientists concluded that this suggested that men are more interested in the content and women are more interested in the context. Meaning – women like to watch people having relationships, men like to watch sex they want to participate in.
Thinking About Sex
Reports by researchers suggest that men think about sex at least once a day. That is twice as much as women. Even with age, male sexual fantasies are still frequent, leading to spontaneous turn-ons. Thinking about sex and sexual genitalia is bound to bring on a stiffy, which may (more often than not) result in masturbation or some sort of release.
Male Sexuality & Being Desired
The natural set-up has always been that men are the ones desiring and pursuing sexual encounters. But across the gay and heterosexual dynamics, men have always reported loving when their partner compliments their appearance, ogles their groin areas, and openly chases after them. Using subtle signals, sensual talk, or physical demonstrations of sexual desires is and has always been a safe path to a mans bedroom. If you make it there in time.
So what does that tell us about male sexuality? Perhaps it’s a bit more nuanced than first assumed? Perhaps we all have feelings and emotional needs after all?
Anticipation And The Build-Up
A hint of things to come has always been a key factor in turning guys on. This adds adventure and confidence to sexuality, and creates an expectation of pleasure. Enjoying the arousal state as well as improving your sexual performance comes from anticipation, meaning the longer you anticipate, the sweeter it becomes. When a man sees a subtle but sexual hint that it’s bound to get hot and sweaty later, the hard-on becomes more energetic and more responsive.
Going Off The Script
For guys to be turned on and not fake their arousal, you need to stay away from a predefined flowchart. Sex can become mundane and boring if you and your partner keep to the same roles over and over again. Stepping outside the missionary position, introducing a sex toy for men or having sex in places other than the bedroom can act as a kinky turn on for guys.
Sex Toys And Self-Pleasuring
There’s more to masturbation than just having your shaft stimulated, and excellent solo play is not only healthy but recommended. Relieve your inner sexual tension and stress. Improve the health of your prostate with mind blowing sex toys and masturbation machines made to get the job done. Why? You can’t catch an STD or make someone pregnant with a good rubbing off using a high-tech male stroking machine, so why wouldn’t you? Remember, the world is like an onion, it has layers (quoting Shrek), and so does human sexuality. So why only experience the first layer?
Turn your man on by surprising him with exiting sex toys and experimental positions. Encourage self-play or mutual masturbation to get that pulse pumping. Nothing turns a man on more than watching you enjoy yourself!
Pre-Play & Teasing
Many swear by the porn video’s ability to turn them on, but erotic material can come in many forms. Listening or reading erotica can be entertaining, giving you prolonged hard-ons as you fantasize over stories and audiobooks. Chatting dirty to your sexual partner via phone or text is a great way to build sexual tension. Interactive role play games online is another alternative.
There are other ways to tease someone as well. What about leaving your underwear in his jacket pocket before he goes to work? That’s a step back from digital teasing, but why can’t we have it all?
Let’s face it – male sexuality has been overlooked and put in boxes for too long! We demand equal rights to an emotional connection with our sexual partners, the right to be desired and the right to be nuanced.
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