Handy script tokens – what are they and how do they work?

We are introducing script tokens—a backend script solution that allows for more advanced features. A token with the same format as a funscript, but the actual content is stored on our servers.

To push the interactive technology forward, we needed a better system for scripts. We also wanted backward compatibility with funscripts and the result is script tokens. You can already use them on Naughty America with the “dream lover” subscription. However, script tokens are not a replacement for regular scripts – we will support both.


  • The script token you download does not contain the entire script, only the access data, so our system knows what script to set up.
  • Token scripts will provide a faster setup time.
    • For now, you save a couple of seconds, but with our streaming protocol, we hope to make the setup ~instant.
  • It will allow us some new features that will update the movement instantly. An on the fly customization like:
    • Switching sync between different tracking points like hips, mouth, hand, other penises in the video
    • Switching been versions of scripts
    • Set the playback speed
  • Script tokens give potential partners DRM to prevent downloading everything and cancel the subscription. The token will only be valid for the length of the subscription. To set the token expiration date is an optional feature that we give to partners that pay us to script their videos.
  • It also means users can download as many scripts as they like, rather than capping it to a limited number of script downloads per month as some providers do.
  • Scripts tokens are valid funscripts and should be compatible on all players that use our servers as script hosts. We are adding support to more players and hope to get support for all video players with Handy support in a week or two (online mode, not BLE).
  • We are paying, subsidizing, and sending Handys to developers of video players to integrate Handy support to provide you with more options for video players. Handyfeeling local player is just the basic player we provide and is far from perfect.
    • The devs get a direct line to our devs to speed up development time.
    • Heresphere is an excellent example of that!


  • Only works for Handy.
  • Users cannot edit the scripts.
  • Only works in online mode. BLE mode on Handy will not work.

We have invested a lot in scripting and will script the internet. We want to push the technology further and provide more options for your content and players.

With script tokens we can start producing scripts on demand for you. Let us know what sites you would like us to script, and we will script 10-50 scripts for the top site you recommend and give the scripts out to Handy owners.

We are looking for feedback on the scripts that we produce. The more feedback you give, the better the ML and our scripters get. We have some way to go, but we produce scripts at record rates. Let us know if there are scripts that are bad or if there is part of the script you would like us to improve. If you are using a script token, there is no need to download the new improved script. When we push the changes to the script, your script token will automatically handle the update for you!

What’s new with Handy 1.1?

So what’s changed?

Still the same Handy that you all know and love, but with a few tweaks to create an even smoother user experience! Internally, it’s still the same machine with the same features and functionality, but being the perfectionists that we are, we saw a few areas that could be improved.

Firmware 3

All new Handy units now ship with firmware 3 rather than the legacy firmware 2, making it much simpler and quicker for new users to get on board with the latest firmware 3 features out of the box.

Improved lubricant

After significant testing, we have chosen a different grease formula to ensure that your new out-of-the-box Handy stays lubricated and in top performance for a longer time. This means that you can go a lot longer without having to re-lubricate your Handy’s gear!

90-degree connector

A long-requested feature, the Handy now comes with a 90-degree connector adapter to help you manage the Handy’s power cable. The adapter has a more secure fit and will stay plugged in much better.

Refined casing

We were never fully satisfied with some of the small details on the Handy’s body. With this release, we’ve fixed some of the curving lines and tightened the fit between the front and back parts of the Handy shell.

New packaging and user guide

We’ve created a new Handy box design together with a much improved “quick start guide” that contains step-by-step instructions for manual and online use as well as signposting all the most important Handy links for troubleshooting.

When is it available?

Handy 1.1 is now available worldwide except for in Australia where it is coming soon. Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know about this and other future updates and deals from Handy.

Introducing the TrueGrip Gen 2 Sleeve!

What is the TrueGrip Gen 2? 

As the name suggests, it’s a new sleeve based on the classic TrueGrip Original which has been the default sleeve of the Handy since the beginning of our journey.  


Although we (and many users!) have been very happy with the Original sleeve since its conception, we are always keeping an ear out for suggestions from the community to inform what we do next – and based on popular community feedback, we decided to go to the drawing board and come up with something special for our users. 

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New patch release: Firmware 3.1

Dear Handy Community,

As you know, we’ve been in the process of gradually rolling out FW3. Unfortunately, there were some unforeseen bugs that affected a number of users, in particular a memory storage bug that affected the ability of some Handy units to work with scripts or to go into online mode. We are truly sorry for the frustration and uncertainty caused during this time and have been working round the clock to make sure that we fixed any issues before continuing the FW3 rollout. 

We have since fixed the bugs with a new patch release FW 3.1. We are also making sure that we have a robust support system in place to specifically help anybody that has any issues related to FW3. 

You can find the full release notes and further information about the FW3 rollout over at HandySetup. We strongly recommend that anyone currently on an earlier version of Firmware 3 (3.0.0 to 3.0.4) upgrade to Firmware 3.1 even if you haven’t encountered any of the bugs described to ensure the stability of the Handy.

Still, have trouble with FW3 after upgrading or having any difficulty with the upgrading process? Please send an email directly to Darren, our engineering support at darren@sweettech.no. Important! Please be sure to add [Firmware 3 Issue] to the subject of your email. Emails without this text in the subject will be filtered out to make sure that queries about FW3 go to the right person.

As always, we thank you for your trust and patience!

Say hello to Handy Firmware 3

It’s the moment a lot of you have been waiting for…

We are super happy and excited to announce that the long anticipated firmware 3 release is here!

We’ll be rolling it out in stages, starting with the lucky first 5% of users to ensure that things go as smoothly as possible. To update, simply connect your Handy to Wi-Fi and visit HandyFeeling and click the Connect to Handy button — the website will prompt you to update to Firmware 3 if you’re eligible. If you want to skip the line, you can update manually.

We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again — huge thanks go out to all of you who helped us test FW3 over the past 6 months. We wouldn’t have been able to get here without all of your help!

If this is all brand new to you, here’s a rundown of what you can expect from the next-gen Handy firmware.

Define a stroke zone

You can now set the bottom point as well as the top point of the Handy stroke, opening up much more possibilities when it comes to sensations. By adjusting the top and bottom points, you can define a ‘stroke zone’ within which the Handy will move. Want the Handy to focus solely on the tip of the penis? Now you can!

How can I change the stroke zone?
The bottom point of the stroker can be adjusted by pressing and holding the up or down buttons. The top point, as before, can be adjusted by simply clicking the up or down buttons.

The stroke zone can be adjusted in both offline and online modes.


Bluetooth connectivity

Say goodbye to fiddly set-ups over WiFi hotspots… Handys using Firmware 3 will use Bluetooth connectivity for initial Wi-Fi setup, so initial connection setup to the internet will be a lot easier.

Handy Connect app- our companion app to simplify the initial Wi-Fi setup process for Firmware 2 and Firmware 3 is available of iOS and Android.


Faster sync tracking

The Handy can now instantly follow the action of a synchronized video when skipping to different parts. Previously it would take a few seconds to re-sync when skipping ahead.


New LED status codes

The LED colours and related states have been simplified for better diagnosis. See the meanings of the new LED colours.


Emergency stop with the power button

In any operating mode, pressing the Power Button immediately stops the Handy, making it even safer for users.


Improved Responsiveness

With our entire codebase rewritten for firmware 3, you will find that the Handy is more responsive to button presses and online connectivity.



The new firmware will allow us to develop additional features for the Handy in the future. Thought the Handy was already awesome? Well, you can expect it to just keep getting better!


For Developers


  • The Handy Bluetooth interface allows for the development of local controls for the Handy without the need for Wi-Fi.
  • New REST API adds new protocols for controlling the Handy over the Internet.
  • We have added a proxy that translates Firmware 2 commands to Firmware 3, so existing Handy integrations should not be affected when users upgrade their Handys to Firmware 3.

Introduction to Handy (step 1): Manual Use

 What is the Handy?


The Handy is a high-tech automatic masturbator machine for the penis, developed by the Norwegian company Sweet Tech AS. Its current capabilities include:

  • syncing up with a video to mimic what is happening on-screen.
  • syncing up with VR
  • syncing up with audio (however, audio scripts are currently lacking. We’d love to see some scripts made!)
  • remote control over Wi-Fi
  • the ability to adjust stroke length and speed
  • up to 10 strokes per second! As of now, that’s the fastest on the market.

We also have an open API that allows 3rd-parties to create content that can work with Handy. We are constantly working to improve and develop the Handy further and you can keep up to date with the latest developments on here, our Discord server, and our monthly email newsletter.

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Handy + FeelX Combo: How To Guide

1) Go to feelxvideos.com and log in to your account.

2) Click on “status device: not connected” at the top of the page. You will see this message: 

3) Click to start the connection process 


4) Select The Handy 

5) Enter your Handy connection key and press “save & connect” 

6) Your Handy is now connected and is ready to sync with videos on the FeelXVideos platform. You can now watch videos on FeelXVideos.com with your Handy synced to the action. 

For any technical support please send an email to FeelXVideos at info@webcasters.eu


Virtual Reality Porn: How it Works and Where to Find It

VR porn is the hottest tech trend in the adult industry, and it’s getting better by the day. Virtual reality won’t just improve your private after-dark activities. It is going to change how you look at sex forever.

VR porn makes virtual sex look and feel real by putting viewers into the action. It does so much better than the same old 2D video, as it leaves nothing to the imagination and stimulates your senses.

Don’t let all the high-tech VR gadgets frighten you. Easing yourself into new realms of solitary orgasms is simpler than you might expect. But before you go searching the web for some digital smut, take time to go through the best tips on where, what, and how to watch VR porn.

What’s the big deal about Virtual Porn?

With virtual reality you won’t just be watching porn, it’ll seem like you are experiencing it. A once-passive experience is transformed into something far more interactive. The VR technology tricks your mind into thinking you’re an active participant in the erotic fantasy playing out before your eyes.

Most VR adult videos are filmed from a participant’s point of view, without the impression of gazing at a screen and excluding all background distractions.

Ready to join in on the fun? We wouldn’t hold that against you. Just keep reading!

What You need to watch VR Porn?

VR blue films are not readily accessible to anyone with an internet-connected screen. In other words, you’ve got to shell out some bucks for a couple of neat gadgets, but that’s all part of the fun. Next are things you’ll need for your coming virtual sex happy hour.

A VR Headset: There are lots of options being sold, so look for one that best fits your needs.

A Connected Device: You know, most VR headsets can’t work on their own, so you’ll need a “mediator” device. This could be a computer, smartphone, or your video game console.

Whether you’re streaming or downloading, VR films need a stable internet connection. This is because such films tend to be larger as you’re no longer watching a rectangular 1080p projection.

Now, you’re watching videos recorded from several angles – below, above, to the sides; and many times, often behind. And since you’re viewing the screen up close, a better quality which equates to higher bytes is filmed with higher definition cameras.

A masturbator, Lube, & the Right Apps: You don’t want to leave out these items because, without them, your solo play isn’t complete.

Best VR Porn websites

One of the popular ways people view VR porn is by downloading them from a website. Some of the favorite virtual reality porn sites include Badoink, Sex like Real, Wankz VR, Sex Babes VR, and Virtual Real porn.

For best free VR videos, there are the likes of Handyfeeling, Pornhub, xHamster VR, Pornhub VR, and VRSmash.

Now that your VR gadgets are ready, go have fun!

Will adult Virtual Reality improve or sink my sex life?

Although the VR adult industry is relatively new, it’s rapidly growing in exciting and innovative ways. The Virtual Reality section of porn sites like Pornhub has recorded millions of views since it debuted in early 2018.

Seeing the rise of VR sexual interactions, many have wondered if virtual Reality is of any good to them and their relationship in the long run.

In this article, we look at a few ways VR sex can empower you and improve your sex life.

VR Sex for newcomers to Relationship

While there’s nothing that can replicate the feeling of skin-to-skin contact, VR adult interactions may offer people new to relationships a safety net – which is a chance to experience their very first sexual encounter without fear of inexperience, ridicule, or failure.

An executive of a VR adult company once stated that Virtual Reality sexual interaction is able to address one of the phobias in the society: fear of sex or erotophobia.

He said VR aims to help people struggling with intimacy issues about performance, whether as a result of poor sex education in schools or religious upbringing. The executive commented that a lot of people have a negative view of sex.

So for couples with minimal or zero sexual experience, VR can be a terrific way of working through most anxieties ahead of time.

Working through most sexual dysfunction

Erotophobia is one condition some people use adult VR for, with some level of success. But virtual interactions can also be applied in treating other sexual dysfunctions like premature ejaculation (PE).

Treating PE, for instance, typically involves asking the sufferer to bring themselves very close to arousal then stop or “edge” before orgasm. The method is to retrain the body to delay orgasm.

Yes, this training can feel incredibly intimate if done with a partner. At the same time, it could cause a sense of inadequacy, fear, frustration, or pressure at the early stages of treatment.

VR allows the user a safe space to recover without the anxiety which the presence of a partner might cause. This lets people take treatment at their own speed and build up to a healthier and happier sex life with their other half.

It offers an outlet for sexual fantasies

Many of us have some form of fetish or fantasy. However, some couples will discover that their sexual fantasies don’t align, and they have to scratch those fetish-based itches in other ways.

Adult VR interactions provide the ideal outlet for those who wish to live their fantasies for a while without it affecting their relationship negatively. And as long as the two partners are in the know and happy about the situation, the other partner can explore to their heart’s content – in a way that keeps everyone happy.

While the effect of “VR as sexual fantasy outlet” hasn’t been tested in any research, we’re looking at it from porn’s point of view. A study carried out by the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy found that female respondents were only upset when their partners watch porn in secrecy.

On the other hand, women whose partners told them about their porn usage reported lower levels of stress and higher relationship satisfaction than their counterparts. From this, we see that when it comes to using VR as a sexual outlet, honesty with a partner makes all the difference.

Our take

Adult Virtual Reality has created a different and exciting new world for us. When used constructively, it can complement a couple’s relationship and may make sex more thrilling for those involved.

Sex robots with artificial intelligence

Realistic robots

At Abyss Creations factory in California a sex robot called Harmony with artificial intelligence was created.

She smiles, blinks and frows, can support conversation, jokes and quotes Shakespeare, recognize faces and remember birthdays, food preferences and names. Harmony can talk about music, movies and books – and of course, she can have sex and respond to caresses.

The Sinister Valley effect

It would seem that the more realistic the robot is, and the more it looks like a person, the better, especially if we talk about sex robots. In reality though, this is not true. The human brain is a bit more complicated than that, resulting in a phenomenon called The Sinister Valley effect. The essence of this phenomenon is that when a robot looks like a real person, it makes the observer feel dislike and even fear towards that object.

In order for people to feel comfortable in the presence of humanoid robots, they must resemble people, but have some obvious differences, so that you can immediately distinguish them from humans. For example, you can make them look like dolls: with unrealistically big eyes, button noses and other traits that seem nice and cute, but at the same time clearly signal: “This is not a human being!”

However, even such differences does not entirely solve the problem, because not only appearance can scare people, some natural actions, such as eye movements, might also freak us out.

However, the developers are not very upset about this. It is believed that over time this reaction to robots will pass, people will get used to it and will treat electronic creatures equally, in whatever form they appear – virtual or physical.

Sex robots can affect gender relations

One could assume that the only purpose of owning a sex robot would be for sex. However, a recent survey with over 500 men showed that they expect much more from they sex bots in the future.

38% of the men have what they consider to be “taboo sex fantasies” that they cannot satisfy with their partners, and 30% of them are shy and single, so a sex robot would make it a lot easier for them to live out their fantasies. .

Surprisingly, many (about one in ten respondents) said that they would like to buy a realistic sex robot with artificial intelligence as an intellectual interlocutor.

15% of respondents want a partner who will never let them down and will not experience negative emotions. One of five stated that the sex robot will always listen to them, and 17% of the surveyed would like a sex robot with the same interests as they have.

Emotional disconnect?

Some believe that creating realistic sex robots encourages unemotional sex. Others, however, argue the opposite. There are many devices for male masturbation, so why make sex robots look like real women and program them to express human emotions, if not for emotional connection with their owners?

Will this be the downfall of real relationships? One would hope the opposite. All technologies can be used for good and bad – that is out of the creator’s hands. But one would hope that any technology we create helps human beings express themselves and live a better more fulfilled life. We need human relationships, and sex tech can always be used to accomodate that.

Digitalsexuality: What to expect from the future of sex

Sex futurists predict that it will be difficult to imagine a person’s intimate life without a close interweaving with high technology already in 2030s. After a couple of decades, you will be called a jammed freak, if under the tangled pillow that synchronizes your heart rate with the rhythm of your lover, there is no device for remote kissing or connection to a mobile sex toy application.

The high-tech sex of the future promises to be so vivid and multifaceted that some people will prefer not to have intimate relationships with other people at all. At least that is the fears of some digital sex toy critics.
Let’s start this off with a definition:

Digisexual: Someone whose sexual identity is associated with the use of technology.

Now, that my friend, might already be more of us than critics fear!

Sex futurists predict that by 2028, more than a quarter of young people will have sex with their partners using different devices, being far away from each other, and that by 2045, one in ten will have a sexual experience with a humanoid robot.

Virtual Sex: 3D avatars, Porn worlds and VR mania

The porn industry is one of the first to master promising VR technologies in its traditional manner. According to some sources, by 2025 the “virtual porn reality” industry will be worth an estimated 1 billion dollars.

Another promising direction of future sex is online role-playing games. To date, developers are actively trying to connect the real and virtual worlds through high-tech sex toys, motion-capture and VR-technology, as well as improved design.

Of course, the sex entertainment industry are waiting for the creators of VR helmets, who by 2030 promise to master the technology of “brain reading” – to create an operating system that will read the neural activity of the brain and redirect it in the form of concrete actions in the virtual world. Then we will be close to the idea shown in the movie “Demolition Man”. According to the plot, in 2032 people have sex with the help of helmets that transmit “sexual energy” between partners.

Sex Robots With Artificial Intelligence

Perhaps the most common fantasy of digitalsexuals is sex with human-like androids endowed with artificial intelligence. At the moment, this is just a dream. The most twisted robot is considered a gynoid Sophia – the one who jokingly promised to take over the world. She can really answer some mysterious questions and recognize people’s emotions, but she is still far from the heroine of Ex machina.

So far, digitalsexuals can settle for intimacy with hyper-realistic silicone sex dolls or automatic strokers with digital universes.

A few of our recent favourite community contributions

We also thought it was worth linking in some of our user made favorites which makes the Handy an even more versatile product to use for digisexuals and others alike:

What’s the Future?

Ordinary sex toys are no longer in trend. Today, the sex industry, like many others, is greatly influenced by technologies. VR porn, remote control toys, smart masturbators – it’s just a small list of things to pay attention to.

VR Porn Movies

How does it work? A person wears VR glasses, and a certain action unfolds. In a movie for adults, the main character who is the visitor himself may, for example, be surrounded by cheerleaders, or may even play the role of a criminal interrogated by a sexual investigator. It all depends on your desires and imagination. The feelings are quite real, although no one really touches anybody. However, now there are various devices that imitate the movements of the actress/actor to make the touching seam very much real.

Virtual time capsule

One company, creating virtual reality porn took it one step further and launched the time capsule. This is a service which allows you to record yourself having sex on camera (from all sides, filming both partners) and in many years, relive this experience again – all you need to do is to wear VR glasses.

Sex toys based on artificial intelligence

More and more masturbators are based on artificial intelligence. For example, scientists created a device that imitates oral sex. It constantly changes technique and reproduces complex and unusual movements, which makes an imaginary partner. To create the device, scientists used deep training. They invented a system to annotate porn videos to understand which movements give a man the greatest pleasure. They analyzed 109 hours of blowjob video, a total of 1200 videos. The algorithmic model processed the data and transferred it into toy movements.

Sex during the pandemic

In New York, the Health Department sent out a memo to residents with rules of sex during the pandemic.

“You are your most reliable sexual partner. Masturbation does not spread COVID-19, as well as sex toys. Especially if you wash your hands with water and soap for at least 20 seconds before and after sex”.

During the self-isolation the demand for condoms and sex toys has increased. Consumers pay attention to the sound characteristics of the masturbators as it is important in the situation when everybody’s at home.

If the partners are quarantined separately, they can have sex from a distance and even without seeing each other. Modern sex toys can be controlled remotely. This allows anyone to have access to the toys, even if they are in another country.

According to forecasts of sex futurologists, by 2028, more than 25% of young people will have sex at a distance with the help of gadgets, and by 2045 every third person will have an intimate experience with sex toys.

Sex Toys For Men: An Introduction For Beginners

We can all agree that male masturbation has eventually managed to stick its head out of the mud and that male sexual pleasure is on the agenda. Advanced sex toys continue to include a whole new dimension to both solo and partner-focused sexual pleasure, which is worth celebrating.

But despite penis focused toys prevailing for decades now, many men still cling onto their skepticism. Traditional, old-fashioned masturbation techniques are still a part of many men’s private moments of pleasure, simply because of information gaps.

Well, here is an introduction to the exciting and pleasurable world of male sex toys. Enjoy!

What are Male Sex toys?

Simply put, male sex toys are adult toys mostly manufactured from silicone and designed to level up sexual pleasure in masturbating or sexually active men, sexuality notwithstanding. These handy devices come in divergent shapes and sizes, making them viable for penis owners of all ages and all sizes. We also have different types, featuring auto-blows, sex dolls, prostate massagers, automatic masturbators, cock rings, and male strokers, among others.

Topped off with classic features that can mimic real-life sexual simulations, automatic sex toys are giving dildo and vibrator-manufacturers a run for their money.

It doesn’t matter whether you use them as masturbation aids or prefer flashing them out when getting down with a partner, these devices are the surest bet to having a mind-blowing and relieving orgasm.

The Growing Use Of Male Sex Toys

Modern day technology makes everything more accessible, and others more approachable. In the world of sex toys, the possibilities are endless. One quick search on the internet, and you can find almost everything you are looking for. There are a lot of options for all of us, but some may look tricky to use.
Happily, each of them has a purpose. Some will make your couples experience hotter, others will help you perform longer, and then, there are the ones you can enjoy all by your glorious self.

In the process of choosing your sex toy, take notes of their usage and characteristics and see how you want it, how you need it and of course, how to use it.

It’s important to remember that it’s perfectly fine to try them all because they can provide you with different types of pleasure.

For example, automatic masturbators and manual strokers can sometimes give you a better sexual experience than regular sex, as you can control every movement, you can choose your desired grip and of course, you can do it while you watch your favorite materials. And if not better, at least it offers a quite different experience all together.

Simply lube yourself up and get started. Make sure to clean the device thoroughly after you’re done and of course, do it again!

There are also toys you can only use with your partner. Cock rings, for example, are a great option for longer-lasting erections. They will slow the blood flow, keeping things interesting for a longer time. Whether you choose a simple one or a vibrating one, chances are, you are going to have a lot of fun!
The male sex toys are great, and some of them also have medical purposes, making them very important in some people’s lives. Don’t be afraid to try more!

Why Is There a Taboo on Sex Toys for Men?

Few people know, but with regard to sex toys for men there is an interesting paradox. Despite the fact that about 70% of visitors to sex shops are men, toys for the penis or prostate are in much less quantity than for the vagina. It seems that manufacturers are developing such devices on the residual principle, only to avoid offending anyone, and men often have to buy items considered “female”. Why does this happen?

First, there is a common myth that sex toys are only wanted by those who can not get the real deal. This opinion is often also heard about women.

“Why do I need a rubber vagina when I can easily access the real one?” Although such a childish comment is obviously ignorant, it’s still one that flourishes the web and real life conversations. It also very much helps to increase the taboo on sex toys, and by doing that – helping to decrease sexual pleasure and health for everyone.

In addition, we should not consider masturbation and sex interchangeable things: we masturbate for various reasons (from horniness to boredom to insomnia) we want a controlled rapid orgasm, and sex – the interaction with another person, which means the process is pleasantly unpredictable and full of emotions. Both masturbation and sex can be done with a partner – in each others presence or even appart using interactive tools.
I am sure you can agree that few of us give up “loving ourselves” just because we have a partner. In addition to that, any sex toy can be used by two (or three, if you like) – and thus make the time spent together more interesting. After all, humanity as a species has always attracted novelty.

“Men Don’t Cry”

We are used to the idea that women are complex and incomprehensible beings, and men are as simple as stools and lack emotions. Society is suspicious of men who experiment and try to study their sexuality. But it is easy to see how this unfairly limits men’s pleasure. And although we all know that everyone has the right to a variety of pleasures, we still see the same old stereotypes portrayed.

Thirdly, few people even know what modern sex toys can offer. “I do a great job myself, without any devices,” is a used up frase by now. But of course, the unknown is sometimes magical.

Common Myths About Male Sex Toys

The truth is, some years back, you couldn’t mention the word male sex toy and get away with it. If you are lucky, you’ll get some funny looks and ghastly facial expressions. To some men, the thought of experimenting with a sex toy sounds bonkers.

Thanks to technology, the world today is more sex-positive. You’ll find more topics on sex toys today than ever before, like how to find the best sex toys online, people are discussing in open forums more freely, and the overall trend is on a rise.

However, at the very end, controversy still lingers on the subject, some true, others a complete lie. You can easily fall victim to some of these false theories, and maybe you already have, all at the cost of your sexual pleasure.

Well, we believe the truth is all that matters. So to cut your long wait short, here are some of clarifications;

Sex Toys Replace Your Partner

You might believe that once you get hooked on a sex toy, you’ll spend less time with your partner between the sheets.

Contrary to this, sex toys bring you two closer together, if you are open and honest about it, and chose to let it strengthen your relationship.

While male sex toys bring many fabulous rewards to the table, it doesn’t mean real-life partners are completely out of the equation. For the record, it is impossible to replace a human partner. A pocket pussy won’t cuddle with you, or have a fun, nasty pillow talk.. Not yet at least. Sex toys are only meant to elevate your current sexual experiences by bestowing more pleasurable and exciting sexual sensations. They complement your sexual life, and if you use them well sex toys take your sex game up a notch – with or without a partner.

You Will Become Addicted

Hey – Let’s be frank, a good sex toy is hard to ignore. You might become addicted – if you bought the right toy!!!! You’re always ready to go every time you feast your eyes on your toy. You’re not alone. It happens to most of us because our bodies love pleasure. So next time you jerk off multiple times, feel good about it. We all know that those who take time to get a massage are constantly praised for taking care of their bodies. So take some pride in fulfilling your other needs to. And if you are gonna do something, do it right!

After all, you are making the best of it, just like you use your other gadgets like your computer. Only this time you’re properly enjoying it.

Sex Toys For Men Aren’t Nearly As Cool As Women’s

It is true. Women’s toys have dominated the market in previous years. That, however, isn’t necessarily the case anymore; technology has leveled the playing field, or at least leveling it as we speak.
Some of the best sex sleeves in the market today are for men. Infused with the latest trends technology has to offer, male sex toys can offer the best sexual experiences of all time. Virtual reality integration, remote control, perfect movie sync – there are a lot to say about dildo’s but I am pretty stoked about the recent developments in automatic strokers for penis owners too!

Sex Toys Are For Sad, Lonely People

This is part of why sex toys for men has been such a taboo. Remind you, I am saying “has been” because its on the way out. We all like pleasure. The majority of us enjoy masturbation – at least when done right. So if you are gonna do something, do it right. And enjoy it.
The freedom you feel when jerking off alone is priceless, you also get to try out new things. Such an experience will gear you up for when you meet the right person too if that is on the agenda. And yes, sad lonely people should also get sex toys because it would be a great way to lighten the mood!

Why Do You Need a Sex Toy?

You don’t. Obviously there is absolutely no necessity for human existence, but there are a lot of reasons why it might benefit you.

Improving Libido

Society has placed an unfair stereotype on men’s libido, with popular culture painting males as always horny and wanting sex. Masculinity contrasts and is misaligned with male sexuality due to the naked closeness, emotional connection, and vulnerability that sex requires.

According to research, sex drive is individual and reflects on your mental and physical wellbeing. You should be able to single-handedly take care of your urges and experience the pleasures your body is capable of experiencing. There’s more to male libido than just a desire to mate and with your unique sex drive, there’s need for selfdiscovery and pleasure.

The Issues Of Mismatched Libidos

It’s common for partners to have different levels of sexual drive, and this doesn’t mean you have incompatibility issues. Exploring your sexuality with masturbation and the creativity of sex toys lets you move past sexual advances, and the possibilities of rejection. It is a place where you can practice, discover and learn, without worrying about anything other than your own experience. If you are open and accepting in your relationship, then you can free your partner from experiencing a lack of fulfillment based on your level of needs.

Disparate sex drives may mean that your partner isn’t always ready, and it’s unreasonable to give them a responsibility to satisfy your desires. You shouldn’t feel resentful about reaching for your favorite male sex toy since you know and value yourself, and this fix will resolve your discomfort.

Managing Premature Ejaculation

Sex and relationship therapists across the globe found that men who experience premature ejaculation during sex can get a huge advantage from masturbation by masturbating for an hour or two before sex. This is actually a technique recommended by doctors as part of behavioral treatments for managing premature ejaculation.

Cultivate A Healthy Sexual Relationship With Yourself

Emotionally and physically connecting with yourself for a healthy, happy life should be the normal. Take care of your needs with a highly functional male solo-action machine that not only spices up the stimulation but also handles the mess? Why shouldn’t you? Life is short, pleasure is real.

Improve Sperm Quality

Quoting a previous article “Theoretically, masturbating before intercourse releases the residual sperms in the semen transporting tubules. In this way, masturbation allows for the new and better sperms to be released during sex and help in increasing the chances of conception.”

Might Prevent Prostate Cancer

A study conducted in Australia showed that In one Australian research, it was found that men who ejaculate between 3 and 5 times weekly have ⅓ less chance of developing prostate cancer, especially effective if the efforts were increased in their 20s.

Stress and Depression

Testosterone – improves stamina and arousal.
Dopamine – related to our brain’s reward system.
Prolactin – affects our mood and immune system.
Endorphins – also boosts the mood, relieves stress and a pain reliever.
Oxytocin – the love hormone.

All these hormones are released during ejaculation, which greatly suggests that masturbation could help relieve symptoms from stress and depression.

Clearing a Blocked Nose?

Researchers at Tabriz Medical University in Iran Masturbation has suggested that sex has been shown to help in the reduction of swelling vessels of the nose. Which might also suggest similar effects for masturbation – although more research should definitely be done on this.

Besides, an erection ring enhances the erection and increases the sensitivity of the penis. The Prostate Stimulator massages the prostate you can hardly reach. A heated masturbator can warm your penis to a hot 40°C – you’ll only get such a pleasant bonus like that by yourself if you’re in heavy flu (which in that case you should masturbate, as stated above).

The Best Sex Toys for Men

The sex toy industry has undergone lots of rapid improvements, and men unlike before, are now a priority for manufacturers of erotic sex toys. The ridiculous notion that “real men” don’t need assistance with their masturbation is steadily being axed away.

Nowadays, the design and quality of toys for pleasuring penises have moved beyond low-quality, toxic, and freakishly oversized pocket pussies to stylish, well designed, and high-quality toys.

It’s important to point out there still exist some pretty awful male strokers in the market. To be fair, many of them are within the lower price range for those who couldn’t afford to splurge on the better higher-end strokers.

That being said, we scoured the internet for the recent masturbators that would 100% crank up your pleasure and are totally worth the money.

Here is our top list of male strokers not really from mediocre to the awesome, since everyone’s budgets and needs are different.

Manual Pocket Pussies

Manual pocket pussies are not all that expensive compared to the more advanced automatic masturbators. They contain only basic features, which is not surprising because of their price range.
Pocket pussies come in various types and styles. Some common types include:

  • Anal
  • Vaginal
  • Combination
  • Oral

Before getting one, consider your personal desires and kinks, then choose accordingly. It’s like you’re screwing a real vagina, you probably want to invest in a male masturbator that feels more realistic.
Generally, classic masturbators are made of stretchy sleeves to accommodate all penis sizes and they come with a ribbed or contoured exterior for a secure but gentle grip. When choosing one, confirm that the sleeve is medical-grade.

The other detail to consider before making a purchase is the size of the pocket pussy. If it is solely for home use, then you can pretty much get any size your heart desires.
If you are traveling with it, then you may want to pick a pocket pussy that is more portable and discreet.
One of the major drawbacks of this category of strokers is that seferal models currently available are hellish to clean and dry after use.


A new word in toy construction: this category includes the most unusual – and universal in application – models. That’s what you need for experiments.

Penis Pumps

They are not directly masturbation machines, but they are ejaculation tools as they make the erection more poured and saturated – it’s always interesting, and also exacerbates the sensation if used properly and the wanted results are met.

Automatic Male Strokers

If your manual stroker doesn’t do it for you anymore or you want an occasional variety to spice things up – then an auto stroker is the way to go.

Besides keeping your masturbation workload to a minimum, they have better suction and thrust speeds than the pocket pussies.

If you’re considering an automatic stroker, then you want to keep these 3 tips in mind – Material, size, and battery life (some models drain battery power like crazy).

A good automatic high-tech stroker should come equipped with a good power life and body-safe ultra-realistic sleeve. It should also have adjustable thrust speed, firm grip, layered cup for the best sensation, noiseless, and easy to clean.

Cock Rings

This is a brilliant solo and couple’s toy, as it helps you maintain a stronger and longer-lasting erection, but you should still be careful about what you choose. The vibrating ones usually need extra maintenance, as you need to replace the batteries and they have a short life-span.

It’s important again, that the one you choose will fit you, as it can be unpleasant for it to be too tight or too loose. In case you need one for medical purposes, the size is even more important.

Prostate Massagers

The first tip you need to know straight off about mixing and matching sex toys is where to concentrate your pleasure. A man can enjoy orgasmic pleasures apart from direct penile stimulation, which is through prostate massage. Located inside your butthole on the frontal wall of the rectum, your prostate gland can be stimulated directly through the anus. You can also massage it indirectly via your perineum (the area between your anus and genitals).

How to choose from this variety?

  1. Think about what you want. Looking for new sensations in masturbation? Take one of the penis stimulants. Do you mind exploring new horizons? Take a look at the prostate stimulant. Want to improve sex? Choose a ring or a pump to boost your erection and something versatile like a phallostimulator or a unisex vibrator.
  2. Decide on the budget. You shouldn’t take the cheapest – the feeling is almost sure to be so, and the quality is not much higher. But even the highest cost does not guarantee success. Imagine how much money you are willing to give for a really good device, which will please you for more than one year, and discount 10-15%, so that it would not be so offensive in case of failure – this will be your price bar.
  3. If you stop at a toy that is worn on the penis, measure it. Write down the length, maximum width and diameter of the penis in the erection state, and then make sure that the gadget will not be small or large – the necessary information is available on the site or at the consultants of the store.
  4. Pay attention to the material. High-quality material is a guarantee of safety for your health. Choose medical silicone, abs plastic, glass, ceramics and other hard materials. The toy should not smell of chemistry or leave a greasy, sticky mark on your fingers – these are definite signs of a bad material.

The Conclusion and Our Overall Pick

You need to try it before you know which one works for you. And unfortunately there are a lot of sex toys out there which promises gold but delivers nothing. So we recommend reading the feedback from other users, and make sure you read what the company promises. The best male stroker has to have something extra going for it. It should do more than simply make you cum.

You need to have a real experience. This is determined by tightness, thrust speed, sleeve material, and other extra features that make a masturbation session as stress-free and mind-blowing as possible.
You need to be very careful when you buy a new sex toy, as some of them may be manufactured from cheap and toxic materials, which can have a bad impact on your health, others, may not fit you properly. So we also recommend doing your research and if you are unsure, get in touch with the company.

How To Use Sex Toys

There are, of course, many ways you can use them. By yourself, or with your partner or partners. Sex toys usually have an intentional use, but you can get creative as well ofcourse, and combine and experiment as much as your boundaries allowes.

Let your partner take the control, and maybe throw in a pair of handcuffs and you’re set for a very fun night.

In the process of discovering what you want and what you like, there will be a lot of things to try. Searching for inspiration online can bring you a huge spectrum of ideas, but try and be critical when you try new things – not to limit yourself, quite to the contrary.

By being mindful, you limit the chances of less pleasurable experiences, and thus helping you feel comfortable when you experiment. Being mindful and critical does not mean not being in the grey shades, it just means you enter that realm with confidence and a positive expectation.


Proper care and storage of sex toys, as well as compliance with certain rules of use can extend their life span, avoid premature failure and prevent possible health problems. All sex toys are personal items, it is highly recommended not to pass them on to others.


The choice of lubricant depends on the material from which the sex toy is made. What is common for all the intimate accessories is one thing – you should not use fat-based substances such as cream or petroleum jelly with them. In the best case, it threatens irrevocable damage to the sex toy, at worst – a violation of microflora and inflammatory diseases in the future.

Sex shops offer various types of lubricants.Water-based lubes dry faster, but they can be used with almost any sex toy. Silicone-based lubricants provide excellent long-lasting sliding properties, but they cannot be used with silicone and realist sex toys (CyberSkin, UR3, Futurotic, etc.). If you ignore this, the surface of the toy will be covered with sticky, indelible film. Do the research in advance and see what the toy manufacturer recommends.


There are no restrictions on the duration of use of sex toys, everything depends on the intensity of use, accuracy, compliance with the recommendations and MOST IMPORTANTLY – the quality of the product.
Anal stimulators and other toys without vibration, the reason for write-off to scrap is the appearance of cracks, chips, roughness, mold and permanent contamination.

For sex toys with vibration, critical breakage – problems with vibration, cracks in the battery pack.
The use of realistic vaginas and masturbators is difficult after the appearance of tears and surface cracks.


Any sex toy should be washed carefully before the first use and after each use. Toys with batteries should be washed with special care to prevent water from getting in contact with the electronics. The method of cleaning and disinfection of sex toys depends on the materials they are made of and their design.

Usually it is indicated on the package and a basic list of rules are;

  • Plastic and glass can be washed with warm water and soap and alcohol can be used for disinfection.
  • Latex, gel, silicone – wash with warm water and soap or use a special cleaner for sex toys.
  • “Living body” materials (CyberSkin, UR3, Futurotic, etc.), wash with warm water and soap, special cleaners, dry well and treat with a special powder.

If you are not sure about the type of material, wash the toy with warm water and soap. With sex toys made of realistic materials, rubber or latex it is recommended to use a condom, it will help to significantly extend the products life span.


It is recommended to store sex toys away from direct sunlight and dust sources, in a dry and cool place. Before you hide a sex toy, it must be well dried. If you want to be extra careful, remove batteries from electric sex toys as storing them with the batteries inside might cause some damage.

Some materials that are used to make sex toys can stick together. Therefore, you should store your sex toys by wrapping them special bags, fabric or its original casing.

In the process of discovering what you want and what you like, there will be a lot of things to try. Make sure you do the research to find out what peoples experiences are with different toys. Of course we are all different, so make sure you go for what you want in the end of the day. There are many ways to use a good sex toy, so we would recommend reading the manuals and deep diving into the intentional use of the product, and then later on experiment when you know how to use it. So where do you go to find such reviews? Reddit is a great place to look as people talk freely about their experiences and there are a lot of sex toy recommendations there. Look out for affiliate links, as some of these reviewers are paid by the producers, but mostly it just regular people wanting to let you know – so that’s a great place to start.

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Fleshlight mount for Handy

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This is a highly experimental product! 3D prints have different quality and it might break during use. Sweet tech AS, the company behind Handy, does not take responsibility for damage to you or your machine if you choose to use the 3D printed Fleshlight mount.

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